William Dexter was baptized 21 February 1618[/19] at Great Bowden, Leicestershire, England to Thomas and Mary (Harper) Dexter. [Mahler] As a child of 10 or 11 he came to New England with his father and siblings where they first settled at Saugus, Essex County, Massachusetts (later Lynn). His father built mills, bridges and other useful things in the young colony, seems to have been a man of means, was a large landholder, served the colony in a variety of ways, but had a short temper and often appeared in court. William doesn’t appear to have shared his father’s litigious streak or his passion for public duties as he infrequently appears in records. William is my 9th great-grandfather on my grandfather Arthur Washburn Ellis Davis’ side of the family.
William’s father owned hundreds of acres at Saugus/Lynn, had a large farm, built a mill and a bridge that he attached a weir to for fishing. I wrote about Thomas Dexter here. William lived briefly in Sandwich on Cape Cod, where his father built the first mill which William’s brother Thomas took over. There’s a later mill on the spot where the original one stood that is open to the public and still bears the name of Thomas Dexter.
About 1646 William was living at nearby Barnstable on one of the two farms purchased by his father. [Otis] Unfortunately many Barnstable County deeds were lost in a courthouse fire.
In July 1653 William Dexter married Sarah Vincent at Barnstable. [Barnstable VR in Mayflower Descendant 4:223] Sarah was born about 1633, the daughter of John and Hannah Vincent. Some genealogists and historians say William’s brother Thomas married Sarah’s sister Elizabeth, [Lovell] but that’s contested by others.
Sarah and William had seven children [births Barnstable VR/MD 4:223; marriages/deaths from Warden]:
- Mary born January 1654; married Moses Barlow; lived at Rochester; died between 1694 (father’s probate record) and 1698 (husband remarried)
- Stephen born May 1657; married 27 April 1696 Ann/Anna Saunders; died Barnstable before 16 Jan 1733/34
- Philip born September 1659; married Alice [—?—]; died in 1741 at Falmouth, Massachusetts, where he operated a mill
- James born May 1662, married Elizabeth Tobey; died 15 July 1697 at Rochester
- Thomas born July 1665; married 1) Mary Miller on 17 July 1695; married 2) Sarah [—?—]; no issue
- John born August 1668; married in 1702 to Sarah Clark; died 31 July 1744 at Rochester
- Benjamin born February 1670; married Sarah Arnold, daughter of Rev. John Arnold, in Rochester; died 1734 at Rochester
I descend from Benjamin. Remarkably all seven children lived to adulthood as they are all mentioned in their father’s 1694 estate settlement.
William took the oath of fidelity in Barnstable in 1657. [Warden] He operated the grist mill near Willow Street, West Barnstable, probably built about 1646 by William and his father. [Lovell] The Whelden Memorial Library’s collection has a photo of the mill in a ruined condition with a note indicating it was behind a house at what is now 113 Willow Street; I drove down Willow Street and took a quick look but couldn’t find No. 113. It’s a lovely, narrow street that is heavily wooded so I didn’t see a stream or brook.
Remains of Dexter Mill, Barnstable source: Whelden Library |
In 1679 William was one of 30 proprietors of the new town of Sippican, later called Rochester, which included William Bradford, Kenelm Winslow, Thomas Hinckley, Benjamin Hammond, and Rev. Samuel Arnold. [Warden] William and his son-in-law Moses Barlow drew house lots at Mattapoisett, which later became a separate town. Rochester was originally part of Barnstable County and later Plymouth County.
The first settlers who made Mattapoisett their home in 1680 did not live along the harbor where the village is now, but settled to the east in Pine Islands, the area around Pine Island Pond which is actually a partially enclosed bay off Mattapoisett Harbor. The identifiers as island and pond are misleading! William had a farm three-quarters of a mile square with a brook running through it. At the what was later called Dexter Dam on this brook, he built a sawmill and a gristmill. [Mendell] His daughter and his four youngest sons settled near him. [History Mattapoisett and Rochester]
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Pine Island Pond source: savebuzzardsbay.org |
Today the Mattapoisett Land Trust oversees Dexter Mill Park, aka Tub Mill, on Mendell Road, the site of the later Dexter Sawmill that burned down in 1911. Given its name it appears that the mill land stayed in the Dexter family for many generations, but I need to do more research.
Dexter Mill Park source: fairhaventours.com |
It seems just like his father before him, William eventually set up his sons with the Rochester mills and returned to Barnstable. There is no mention of mills in his estate settlement, but his son Benjamin’s 1732 will mentions Rochester mills. [Warden] In 1685 William is mentioned as owning land at Barnstable and when he died in 1694 he was “of Barnestable.” It seems likely that William and Sarah either kept their Barnstable property or were living with their eldest son, Stephen, who likely took over the family mill there.
source History Rochester & Mattapoisett
In 1685 the court ordered a road opened through Barnstable, later known as the County Road which is the main street of Barnstable Village. Sixteen men conducted a survey in March and April 1686 beginning at the bounds between Sandwich and Barnstable, running for the most part easterly. It mentions all of the land owners where the road would run including Peter Blossom’s orchard “leaving ye sd Peter Blossom’s house on ye south side of sd road, from thence thro ye lands of Wm Dexter bounded by several marks set up within ye fence of Phillip Dexter on ye north side of sd road, ye house of sd Phillip Dexter [William’s son who later moved to Falmouth] on ye north side of sd road & ye house of Increase Clap on ye south side bounded by a stone in ye orchard of sd Clap, through ye lands of Samuel Parker and John Crocker.”
William Dexter died before, likely close to, 8 May 1694 at Barnstable when his inventory was taken. [MD 23:64 and Barnstable County Probate records volume 1:100-101 at Family Search] He was about 75 years old.
“An Invintory of ye goods…as also of ye Lands of William Dexter Lately deceased” was taken 8 May 1694 by John Howland and John Otis, “all ye Housing and Land both upland and marsh in Barnestable” was valued at £190; “one whole Share of Land at Sepecan” [Rochester] £60. He likely had deeded additional lands and the mills to his sons. Also included in the inventory are household items, husbandry tools, pair of spinning wheels, pair of looms, four cows, 20 sheep, and two horses.
Sarah Dexter made oath to the inventory on 9 May 1694. On that same date “Stephen Dexter Son of William Dexter late of Barnestable deceased Intestate,” was appointed administrator.
On 9 May 1694 Stephen Dexter, Phillip Dexter, James Dexter, Thomas Dexter, John Dexter, Benjamin Dexter, and Moses Barlow mutually agreed “to abide contented & satisfied with ye settlement and disposition of ye Estate of our Honnored Father William Dexter” and they all signed the document. It gave a detailed account of William’s assets including land at Rochester and Scotten (Barnstable), housing at Barnstable, pair of looms, husbandry tools, cattle, horses, sheep. James, Thomas and John received the Rochester land, to be divided equally. The housing and land in Barnstable was to be divided between Stephen, Phillip and Benjamin, with the latter also receiving housing and to give “sufficient security” for his mother who was to have use of the dwelling house and the livestock. Moses Barlow and his wife Mary, their sister, were to receive all the bedding and household stuff after their mother’s decease. Benjamin was also to receive a pair of looms and the husbandry tools.
I have not found a death record for Sarah but she died after 9 May 1694 when she made oath to her late husband’s inventory.
Sources:
JH Beers & Co, Representative Men and Old Families of Southeastern Massachusetts, 1912
William A. Warden, Genealogy of the Dexter Family in America: Descendants of Thomas Dexter Together with the Record of Other Allied Families, 1905
R.A. Lovell, Jr., Sandwich A Cape Cod Town, 1984
Simeon Deyo, History of Barnstable County, Massachusetts, 1890
George Bowman, The Mayflower Descendant, “Abstracts of Barnstable County Probate Records,” 23:64
Leslie Mahler, The American Genealogist, “Colonists from Great Bowden, Leicestershire: Dexter, Cole, Blakeman,” 78:181 (2003)
Committee, prepared by, Mattapoisett and Old Rochester Massachusetts Being a History of These Towns and Also Part of Marion and a Portion of Wareham, 1907
Charles S. Mendell Jr, Shipbuilders of Mattapoisett, 1937
Amos Otis, Genealogical Notes of Barnstable Families, 1888-90