Robert Barrow/Barrows was born about 1641, probably at Plymouth, the son of John Barrow whose wife’s name is unknown. [NEHGR 166:125] It is often claimed that he was born Salem, but genealogist Martin Hollick’s research indicates that was a different man. I haven’t found any indication of what Robert did for a living, so perhaps he was a farmer. That he signed documents with a mark indicates he was illiterate.
On 28 November 1666 Robert Barrow married Ruth Bonham/Bonum at Plymouth. [Plymouth VR 1:665] Ruth was born about 1646 at Plymouth, the daughter of George and Sarah (Morton) Bonham. I wrote about George and Sarah here. Robert and Ruth are my 9th great-grandparents on my grandfather Arthur Washburn Ellis Davis’ side of the family.
Children of Robert and Ruth, all presumably born Plymouth [Hollick]:
1. John born about 1667; m. 1st Hannah Briggs; m. 2nd Bethiah King; died 7 October 1720 Plympton
2. Eleazer born 15 September 1669; died 13 December 1669
3. George born about 1671; m. 1st Patience Simmons; 2nd Anna (Waterman) Ransom; 3rd Hannah/Anna (Ransom) Jackson; died 23 March 1758 Carver
4. Samuel Barrows born about 1673; m. 1st Mercy Coombs and 2nd Joanna (Wood) Smith; died 30 Dec 1755 Middleborough
5. Mehitable born about 1675; m. 1st Adam Wright [TAG 59:167] and 2nd Deacon John Washburn; died 1754 probably at Kingston
6. Ruth born about 1677; m. John Briggs
I descend from Ruth.
Ruth (Bonham) Barrow died after 21 Feb 1679, when mentioned in a deed by her father, and before 1684, as Robert had a second wife by this time. [Hollick] She was in her 30s.
Robert married, second, Lydia Dunham, about 1684 [based on birth of first child]. She was born Plymouth about 1656, the daughter of John Dunham. [Williams]
Children of Robert and Lydia (Dunham) Barrow, born Plymouth [Hollick]:
7. Elijah born March 1684/5; died January 1689/90 Plymouth
8. Robert baptized Plymouth 7 April 1689 “Robert, son of Lydia Barrow,” [Plymouth First Church Records, p. 334]; m. Bethiah Ford 25 April 1711 at Plymouth [PVR 14:36]
9. Thankful born 8 December 1692, m. Isaac King
10. Elisha born 16 June 1695; m. 1st Thankful (——); 2nd Nellie Lumbard; died 9 Nov 1767 Rochester
11. Thomas born February 1697; m. Esther Hall 14 June 1721
12. Lydia born 19 March 1699; m. Thomas Branch
Robert also raised Martha Everson who was born about 1664: John Everson placed his daughter Martha with Robert Barrow “to be as his own child” on 29 July 1669. [Plymouth Town Records 1:112] She kept her birth name—Martha Everson married Hugh Briggs, son of John, on 1 March 1682/3. [PCR 8:84]
He is mentioned in his father’s 12 January 1691/2 will, who bequeathed land he bought from Francis Billington to his eldest son Robert. [The Genealogical Advertiser 3:26] “Robert Barrows Senr” made oath to his father’s will at Plymouth on 6 April 1692, signing by his mark. [MD 31:159]
George Bonum of Plymouth on 30 January 1679 deeded a Plymouth homestead and land to his son-in-law Robert Barrows and daughter Ruth Barrow his wife. The land is near the Great Street on the southerly side of town, from the Grist Mill to the north hill. It doesnt seem this transaction includes ownership of the grist mill but I’m unsure. [Plymouth Colony deeds 4:306] Second deed dated 21 February 1679 and mentions Robert and Ruth similarly, deeded them meadow land and a parcel of land at the New Field, bounds are mentioned as land of Mr. John Raynor, Andrew Ringe, widow Sarah Wood, and the Town Common. [Plymouth Colony 4:365] The handwriting in both of these deeds is challenging to decipher.
On 15 June 1695 Jonathan Sparrow of Eastham quitclaimed to George Bonum a house in Plymouth in the tenure of Robert Barrow of Plymouth and also one acre of land adjoining with two barns on it and also six acres of land in the new field. [MD 43:72] George is likely Ruth’s father.
Sometime between 1695 and 1701 Robert and Lydia removed to Falmouth on Cape Cod. It seems odd he would move after living his entire 60 or so years in Plymouth. I haven’t seen an indication of any of their children living there and there are no Barrow/Barrows in the Falmouth Vital Records to 1850.
On 19 September 1701 Robert Barrow deeded land to Joseph Sturtevant as "Robert Barrow, son of John Barrow, late of Plimoth deceased, now resident of Falmouth in ye county of Barnstable.” The sum was six and twenty pounds for his land at Plymouth including an orchard, bounded by land of John Sturtevant, the County Road, land of Nathaniel Southworth, and land of John Gray. Robert signed with his mark. [Plymouth County Deeds 4:68]
On 2 December 1723 John Bryant and James Bryant sold 30 acres of land [in Plympton?] they had purchased from Lydia Barrow and Robert Barrow. It was near the new meeting house by the road from Kingston to Bridgewater. [Plymouth Colony Deeds 17:213, 39:75]
Robert and Lydia were living again in Plymouth when Robert died in December 1707.
Robert died at Plymouth 9 and 29 December in 1707. He was about 66 years old. Robert wrote his will on 9 December 1707, added a codicil on 19 December, and the will was proved 29 December 1707. [PCPR 3:23, No. 1131]
He named Lydia executrix and left her his dwelling house and land, 2 cows, 18 sheep, a mare, gun, sword, and all household goods. If she remarried or at her decease, all would go to his children. He bequeathed several lots of Plymouth land to his sons Robert and Thomas, signing by mark.
An undated codicil, evidently added to the original, reads "whereas in my will above written I have made no mention of sundry of my children these may certify the reason (viz.) because my children by my first wife have already had their portions and as to my son Elisha and my daughters by my last wife I have given a considerable part of my estate to my said wife to be by her disposed to them as she shall so cause."
On 19 December 1707 Robert Barrow of Plymouth’s will was proved and Lidia Barrow was named Executrix.
Lydia “Barro” died “in ye winter of 1717/8” at Plymouth. [Plymouth First Church Records p. 286]
On 20 June 1717, two of Robert’s children by his first wife acknowledged they received their portion of the estate. George Barrow, Adam Wright & wife Mehitable, children of our honoured father Robert Barrow, have received of our mother in law Lydia Barrow, executrix to the last will & testament of our said father, all our part & portion of our said father’s estate. Witnesses: Thomas Croade, Joseph Thomas. [Susan E. Roser, Mayflower Deeds and Probates, 1994, p 161 and PCPR 4:12]
On 22 December 1725 the children and grandchild of Robert Barrow and wife Ruth of Plymouth both deceased, being George Barrow for himself and sister Mehitable, Samuel Barrow, Samuel Barrow, son of John Barrow deceased and Ruth Briggs, sold a house, lot and barn at Plymouth to Robert Barrow of Mansfield, Connecticut. [Hollick]
Findagrave, Memorial ID 532286854, Robert Barrow 164_ to 1707, is noted as buried in Goshen, Hampshire County, Massachusetts. It would make so sense for him to be buried so far from his death location of Plymouth. It is a later stone with many family member dates inscribed so must be a memorial stone erected by a descendant. It mistakenly states he was born in Salem.
Sources:
Martin E. Hollick, NEHGS Register, “John Barrows of Plymouth,” vol 166, April 2012
Alicia Crane Williams, Early New England Families, 1641-1700, vol 1
Mrs. John E. Barclay, The American Genealogist, “Notes on the Briggs Families of Taunton, Mass.,” 31:81 (1957)
The Genealogical Advertiser, “Abstracts from the First Book of Plymouth County Probate Records,” 3:26
Torrey’s New England Marriages to 1700, 1:97