This post edited July 2016: My initial post incorrectly identified Edward Dillingham's wife Ursula Carter as the daughter of William and Mary (Anscell) Carter baptized Kempston 20 June 1590. Ursula Carter of Kempston married William Paley there on 26 October 1614 so is not the woman who married Edward Dillingham the following February. Ursula Carter Dillingham's parents are not known.
Edward Dillingham was baptized 6 December 1595 in Cotesbach, Leicestershire, England, the son of Rev. Henry Dillingham. He is my 10th great-grandfather on my grandmother Milly (Booth) Rollins’ side.
Edward Dillingham was baptized 6 December 1595 in Cotesbach, Leicestershire, England, the son of Rev. Henry Dillingham. He is my 10th great-grandfather on my grandmother Milly (Booth) Rollins’ side.
Edward married Ursula/Drusilla Carter at Cotesbach, Leicestershire on 14 February 1614/5 and had six children
born Bitteswell or Cotesbach:
1. Elizabeth baptized 2 April 1616, married John
Wing
2. Mary baptized 2 December 1618
3. Osheah, born February 1622, married Stephen
Wing
4. Henry, born about 1624, married Hannah Perry
5. Sarah, baptized 23 June 1627, buried 1 February 1628/29
at Cottesbach
6. John, baptized 1 May 1629, married Elizabeth
Feake
They may have had son Nathaniel and
another son John that died young, buried at Cotesbach 9 May 1629. I descend from
John and Elizabeth. I wrote about them here.
Edward lived in Bitteswell, a village
near Cotesbach, where he was a gentleman landowner. He was a member of the
Plough Company, or the Company of London, that was made up of group of men
coming to America, including Benjamin Crispe whom I also descend from.
It is believed Edward came to America
on 5 June 1632 on the William and Francis, a difficult journey lasting 88
days. It is believed that Deborah Wing, the widow of Reverend John Wing, was
also a passenger with her four half-grown sons. They arrived Nantasket and
settled first at Saugus (now Lynn, Mass.)
He was in Massachusetts Bay Colony
records in 1636 for accounts with Richard Saltonstall, regarding Edward’s
brother’s John Dillingham’s estate. John was of Ipswich, Mass., and left his
brother Edward one-third of his estate.
On 3 April 1637, the Plymouth Court
granted permission of the ten men of Saugus to settle at Sandwich (then Shawme).
Sandwich is the oldest town on Cape Cod.
"It is also agreed by the Court that
those tenn men of Saugust, viz Edmund Freeman, Henry Feake, Thomas Dexter,
Edward Dillingham, William Wood, John Carman, Richard Chadwell, William Almey,
Thomas Tupper & George Knott shall have liberty to view a place to sitt down
& have sufficient lands for three score famylies, upon the conditions
propounded to them by the Governor and Mr. Winslowe."
A controversy arose by 1640 about the
ten men claiming ownership to the best salt marsh meadows and the rest of the
townspeople had to travel longer distances for hay. This did not put the
original ten, including Edward, in a good light as being fair with their fellow
townspeople. He was on the committee to redistribute the land but looks like it
still wasn't fairly distributed. I suppose the original settlers felt some sense
of entitlement, thinking they deserved the prime land for their efforts in
settling the town.
He was on the 1643 list of Sandwich
men able to bear arms and took the Oath of Fidelity in 1644.
Edward remained in Sandwich for the
remainder of his days, living east of the upper mill pond. The Dillingham
property ran along current day Main Street to at least School Street. The
present present First Church of Christ is on Dillingham land. In 1890 the
homestead cellar was said to still be there, as well as a pear tree Edward
planted. They lived near the Wing family. His home survives on Main Street,
Sandwich, currently operated as a Bed and Breakfast. It is widely reported to be
haunted.
He served as Deputy to the Court once
and Surveyor of Highways three times.
The first purchase of new Indian-held
land after 13 May 1654 entry in Plymouth records lists Mr. Dillingham was one of
five men chosen to petition the Court to grant and assist them in purchasing
Manomet land. He is the only one called "Mr." in the list, an
honorific.
In 1657 Quaker sympathizers were
brought before Court. Edward Dillingham Sr. was admonished and
released.
Ursula died 6 February 1655/6 at
Sandwich. She was buried on 9 February, likely at Spring Hill Cemetery.
Edward died at age 71 between May 1666
and May 1667. His will is dated 1 May 1666, proved 1 June 1667. He left
considerable bequests to sons Henry and John, as well as people back in England. The inventory was taken by Stephen Winge and Stephen
Skiffe, presented at Court 5 June 1667. His will was signed by a
mark.
Sources Not Listed Above:
RA Lovell Jr., Sandwich, A Cape Cod
Town, 1984
Barbara Gill, CCGS Bulletin, The
Ten Men From Saugus, Spring 2005
Simeon Deyo, History of Barnstable
County, Massachusetts, 1890
CW Swift, Dillingham Family,
Library of Cape Cod History & Genealogy, No. 95, 1912